I was on this hunt a while back, for a software alternative with more flexibility (automation & so on). Bought every good drum plugin going, waldorf attack, AD tattoo, uTonic & tremor to name just a few
Drumspillage filled that gap for me, but is mac only (audio unit). It is the best quality drum plugin I have heard which can do the md type kicks & white noise type stuff. Very clean & high quality sounding.